L updates with invalidate-remote

Commit d0ef827e (drbd: switch configuration interface from connector to
genetlink) introduced a regression by removing the ability to set all
bits in the out of sync bitmap and to suspend updates to the activity log
of a disconnected device via the invalidate-remote management call.

Credits for reporting the issue are going to Arne Redlich.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>