not to reclaim unused state owners during state recovery.

This change has benefits for the client as well.  For some workloads,
this approach drops the number of OPEN_CONFIRM calls from the same as
the number of OPEN calls, down to just one.  This reduces wire traffic
and thus open(2) latency.  Before this patch, untarring a kernel
source tarball shows the OPEN_CONFIRM call counter steadily increasing
through the test.  With the patch, the OPEN_CONFIRM count remains at 1
throughout the entire untar.

As long as the expiry time is kept short, I don't think garbage
collection should be terribly expensive, although it does bounce the
clp->cl_lock around a bit.

[ At some point we should rationalize the use of the nfs_server
->destroy method. ]

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
[Trond: Fixed a garbage collection race and a few efficiency issues]
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <Trond.Myklebust@netapp.com>
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